The new school year is sure to bring challenges and obstacles for your children. Developing a growth mindset early on is important to not only success in the classroom, but in any challenge they face for years to come. Here are five ways you can encourage your children to be prepared with an open mind:
1. Revel in the struggle.
Many times, when our children struggle, our first instinct is to have them switch to something easier or even complete the task for them. However, when struggle is seen as part of the growing process, children can be taught to view it as learning. Acknowledge your child is struggling by using statements like, “I know you’re struggling, but you’re learning how to do it.” It will make the accomplishment so much sweeter. Incorporate music learning with Tough Stuff: Songs of Motivation CD.
2. Try new things.
Without trying new things, children’s horizons are limited as they are given fewer opportunities to grow. Encourage your children to step outside of their comfort zone, whether it’s attempting a feat on the playground they think they can’t do, trying new food at the dinner table, or meeting new people. The willingness to try new things will establish the early stages of a growth mindset. To challenge children at home, start browsing our puzzling and brainteaser section: https://www.kaplantoys.com/shop/puzzles.
3. Explore the concept of continual learning.
Intelligence isn’t fixed. This is an important concept for children to understand. Even mommies and daddies continue to learn every day! Be sure you’re open about continual learning and how it changes the brain and improves intelligence even as an adult. For a range of topics you can teach your children about every day, don’t miss the Learn Every Day series!
4. Teach the importance of failure.
Even failures can be seen as a positive when seen through the lens of growth. When your child fails, encourage them to ask questions like, “What mistakes did I make?”, “How can I do better next time?”, and most importantly, “What did I learn from this?” This will instill resilience in children from an early age and an appreciation that success comes with hard work and perseverance. To learn more about how you can promote resilience in young children, check out Socially Strong, Emotionally Secure.
5. Encourage positive self-talk when it comes to problem solving.
Finally, encouraging your child to keep a positive perspective when faced with challenges is so important. Here are a couple phrases you can use to encourage and model positive self-talk: