Whether it is a muscular man in tights fighting crime or a fireman saving a crying, orphan kitten from a tree, superheroes have a strong representation in the fabric of childhood. With the men and women in capes growing ever so prominent in the media and the popularity of superhuman movie stars at the local theater, children’s fascination with these masked heroes is easily understandable. Teaching little ones manners and values is an everyday practice that comes with raising a child. However, teaching a child to have “superhero” qualities may seem at first, a daunting task, but in reality it is easier than you may assume.
Why should they be kind?
Courage, strength, wisdom, compassion—all words you may utilize when describing a superhero to a child. These words also describe elements of a polite, ideal child. Teaching your child manners may seem like common sense, but teaching your child reasoning for those manners can often be neglected in the hustle and bustle of life. The importance of answering the “whys” of actions and reactions develops a well-manner child into a well-mannered child with pure intentions and integrity. It can be hard sometimes for little ones (and even adults) to choose to act with kindness and honesty. Encouraging children to act with integrity starts with explaining the purpose of integrity. So next time your child asks why they should share their toy or why they should hold open the door, try your best to not respond with the easy “because I said so” sentence but instead explain how it assists others and in return helps them. However brief or descriptive that little explanation may be, it can have a huge impact in developing an average kiddo into a super kid.
Be an example worth copying!
You don’t have to fight crime on a daily bases to serve as an example of how one should act in everyday situations. A fireman’s compassion and a police officer’s courage are just two examples of everyday heroes that can be used for teaching your little ones “superhero” qualities. YOU can also serve as your child’s superhero by turning everyday acts of kindness into teachable moments. Involve your child in charitable acts and encourage them to seek out their unique ways to improve life for others by being a local superhero (and don’t forget that animals count too)! It can be as simple as them helping you “pay it forward” or complex as raising money for a specific cause that they find interesting! Finding compassion in their passions is key to successfully developing “super” behavior.
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